Borrowing someone else’s faith

When we are young, we believe the things we are told.  We believe our parents when they say we’re going on vacation.  We believe our teachers when they say our heart pumps our blood.  We believe our older brother when he says that when you see the sun from outer space, it is not yellow, but actually green (apologies to my younger siblings for that one…). 

We continue with these beliefs because we trust the person giving us that information.   Sometimes our beliefs are validated at a later point – we do go on vacation and through further learning we find that the heart really does pump blood.  Sometimes we find out that the sun really isn’t green.

We’ve been looking at what happened after the Samaritan woman believed in Jesus for eternal life and then ran back into her town to tell everyone the good news:

John 4:39-42
Now many Samaritans from that town believed in Him because of what the woman said when she testified, “He told me everything I ever did.”  So when the Samaritans came to Him, they asked Him to stay with them, and He stayed there two days.  Many more believed because of what He said.  And they told the woman. “We no longer believe because of what you said, since we have heard for ourselves and know that this really is the Savior of the world.”

Before we go any further, let’s make sure our terminology is clear:  the word believed (Greek word: pisteuo) – means to believe, to put one’s faith in, trust, with an implication that actions based on that trust may follow.  When you boil it all down, to believe is to be persuaded that something is true.  You don’t “choose to believe” or “choose not to believe” – either you are persuaded or you are not, either you believe something or you don’t.

Notice the first group of people believed in Him because of what the woman said.  It was that simple for them.  That’s all the evidence they needed.  In a sense, they “borrowed” the woman’s faith to start their own relationship with Jesus.  And that is a perfectly valid, saving faith.

However, the opportunity to believe simply on her testimony wasn’t enough for some of the townsfolk.  They needed to investigate for themselves.  Since Jesus and the disciples stayed two more days, we now have a second group: those among the many more [who] believed because of what He said.  Further evaluation of Jesus was needed, and His message was the cause of their faith. 

Both groups believed in Jesus – both groups received eternal life.  However, before leaving this story, John takes us back to the first group:

John 4:42
And they told the woman. “We no longer believe because of what you said, since we have heard for ourselves and know that this really is the Savior of the world.”

These were the townsfolk who had believed, because of the woman’s testimony.  However, after hearing Jesus for themselves, they no longer believed just because of her, but because they encountered Jesus and reaffirmed their initial belief – that He is the Savior of the world.

Don’t miss this point: Our base reason for believing in Jesus for eternal life can change, but the important part is Who we are believing in.

Think of it like this…it’s like borrowing the faith of our parents or Sunday School teacher until we evaluate and believe on our own.  Having worked in children’s ministry for an number of years, as well as through raising two boys, I’ve come to recognize this particularly important moment in a child’s walk with God.  Children put their faith in Jesus because they trust “Mr. Ken” when I tell them that Jesus will give them eternal life.  As they grow up and explore their relationship with Jesus through the Scriptures and living their lives, their basis for believing in Jesus is no longer “because Mr. Ken said so”. 

Does that invalidate or call into question their initial belief?  Certainly not.  We see no indication that the Samaritans who believed in Jesus simply because of the woman’s testimony were not “really saved”.  What we do see is that they matured in their faith the more they were exposed to Jesus.

If you are still borrowing someone else’s faith, I encourage you to deepen your relationship with Jesus by engaging Him on your own.  The gospel of John is a good place to start for that.

If you are a more mature believer, allow others to borrow your faith.  After all, that’s how we started out, right?

Keep Pressing,
Ken